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(especially in expressions such as 'start off on the wrong foot') In a state of misunderstanding or inadvertent poor relationship with someone.
My relationship with my neighbours started off on the wrong foot, but we're very close now.
In a disadvantaged situation, or following a mistaken course of action.
In this legal battle we were on the wrong foot from the start.